The Proven Process

The 4 Stages

The Rebuilding Programs has changed more than 100,000 lives. Now, it's your turn.

The Fisher Rebuilding Seminar was first created in the 1980s by Dr. Bruce Fisher. As he worked privately with people he realized that modern therapeutic methods weren't sufficient. So he began studying the issues to understand what people needed and what information and strategies actually worked.

He eventually simplified the issues in 19 steps for people to work through. Then, he organized them into a logical flow that anyone can follow.

The 19 "Blocks"

Everyone's circumstances of their divorce is unique, but the effects are similar. Dr. Bruce Fisher created a step-by-step structure that walks people through each step or "block". He called this "climbing the mountain". At the top, is freedom. For one person a particular block may take 5 minutes. For another it is "the" block that they are stuck on. By giving you a map and the right guidance from an expert, you are able to rebuild your life, very quickly.

The 4 Phases

The 19 steps can be daunting to people that are overwhelmed. Rest assured that it isn't as hard as it looks. In fact the process can be simplified into 4 major phases.

01

Thinking

Our thoughts can create our suffering. Having the right mindset and learning how to shift your thoughts so that you are the victor, not the victim is life changing. When you are in control you are strong and resilient.

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02

Feelings

Anger, grief, loneliness, shock, anxiety and more are feelings. Yet most people don't really know WHAT they are feeling, nor how what to do with it. When you allow yourself to turn toward your feelings you are more alive and engaged. What you feel is real!

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03

Identity

Many people "lose themselves" in their relationships. Then, when the relationship ends they simply don't know who they are. By reconnecting with yourself, maybe for the first time, you become centered and solid. You are authentically you.

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04

Relationships

The first 3 phases set the foundation for this phase. They are directed inside. The last phase is about your connections with others. You will learn how to build healthy, meaningful and deeply satisfying relationships.

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WITH THE 10-WEEK GROUP PROGRAM YOU WILL RECEIVE:

  • 30 Hours of Live, In-class Learning

  • Class Materials: Including a textbook and workbook (over 200 pages of printed information)

  • Access to a video library so that you can learn and grow on your own schedule as well.

  • Weekly calls with your peers to give and get support from others also committed to recovery.

  • Regular social activities outside of class.

  • 2 30-Minute private calls with your facilitator (one at the beginning and one at the end)

Let's Start Rebuilding. Together.

You don't have to do this alone. You aren't the only one going through this. With the right combination of community, coaching, and content you can dramatically rebuild your life. You can be happy and looking forward to the next chapter. How will you Rebuild?

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Spring- the eternal reminder of hope renewed

Spring- the eternal reminder of hope renewed

November 22, 20242 min read

Spring- the eternal reminder of hope renewed

Spring- the eternal reminder of hope renewed

Spring- the eternal reminder of hope renewed


Spring has finally arrived here in Wisconsin. Winter only visits us five months out of the year yet it can seem like eternity; especially as we get closer to the month of April and  patches of that white stuff still hide in the shadows. However, once a 40 degree day presents itself we cast off the boots, heavy coats and scarves and race out to catch the first rays of warm sunlight, even if just briefly.

Spring and Easter are a time of renewal; a reminder that what we thought was dead is just being transformed. My garden is a wonderful example of that. All the flowers that seemed to have died under the heavy blanket of snow begin to poke through the crusted earth to reach for those first rays of warm sunlight. Unlike us, the flowers do not doubt that the dark, cold winter days will pass. They patiently wait in stillness for their time to come again when they can rise out of the gloominess to experience their purpose again.

Our lives are much like the changing seasons. Things are constantly in flux. We have our warm sunlit days and our gloomy days. We will experience wonder and awe just as we do when the first snow visits us once again. We will be disappointed just as when the forecast says warm and sunny but the clouds appear and drop a thunderstorm upon us. We will be delighted when the rainbow appears to remind us that the sun will come again or we awake to a new day that breaks the darkness with bright sunshine. Nothing stays the same; nothing is forever. Remember that time passes and we will get through even the darkest days. Something bright and exciting will appear on the horizon if we are just patient and let time take care of our disbelief. Something or someone will appear to distract us and show us a new and sunnier path. We need to be patient, we need to be open and we need to know that there comes a time when we need to let go of believing that life will always be this way. We need to have hope that time allows us an opportunity to be renewed again. And as this song reminds us, Keep your head up, things are going to turn our fine.

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